Pregnancy can be something a woman longs for and the moment she finds out news about being pregnant, it can be a relief. However, some pregnancies are often not always expected or even wanted. So, if a woman who was not planning on becoming pregnant receives a positive pregnancy test, there can be a whirlwind of negative emotions going through her head. These may include feeling upset, frantic, confused, and even scared. The most important thing for a woman to do in this case is to remain calm and analyze her options on what to do next.


So, having a baby is not something that you expected in your life whether the timing is wrong or you never envisioned yourself giving birth to a child. Whatever the reason, it is completely normal to not know what to do. If you make the decision to keep the baby and go through with the average nine months of pregnancy, here are some things you might want to do to make sure you are prepared for your child.

What to do now?

To start off, you already made the hardest decision of all when it comes to having a baby, whether to keep it or not. Now, we must make sure that you have a few things set for yourself and the baby to live an almost stress-free life.

  1. Start by clearing your head and taking a deep breath. It is time to come to terms with the decisions you have made. You must figure out the best solutions for these decisions.
  2. Seek support and assistance. Whether this comes from family, friends, or neighborhood support groups, knowing who is on your side and will also be there to support you when the baby arrives is essential.
  3. Figure out financial logistics of how to afford essentials you and the child will need. You may need to apply for government assistance for expecting mothers such as WIC (Women, Infants, and Children) support and other supplements.
  4. Along with having a healthy mind, you should be physically healthy. With this comes eating healthy and practicing safe exercises that do not go over the limit of what you can handle.

Ultimately, through the nine months, a woman can feel more prepared as time goes on and she gets closer to her expected day to give birth. The main thing is to make sure that you are taking the necessary steps to ensure that you are ready to have her baby when the time comes.

If you want to have the baby but parenting is not for you, you can find information from adoption blogs.